When you look in the mirror, do you see a good person or a bad person?Author Joel Primus grew up believing he needed to "do good" and "be good" to earn his parents' love and society's acceptance, but no matter what he accomplished, he never felt good enough. This underlying feeling of "badness," which he tried desperately to ignore, permeated much of his life.Psychiatrist Carl Jung calls the unsavory aspect of our personality the "shadow self," and the more we distance ours...