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How to Meet Your Self

the million-copy bestselling author

by Dr Nicole LePera ...

'My favourite Instagram account in the world' DR RANGAN CHATTERJEEAre you ready to meet your Self?In recent years, Dr Nicole LePera has become the leading voice in psychological self-healing, helping millions of people around the world rise out of survival mode to consciously create authentic lives they love. In her first book, How to Do the Work, Dr Nicole offered readers a revolutionary holistic ... Read more

$6.99 NZD

'My favourite Instagram account in the world' DR RANGAN CHATTERJEEAre you ready to meet your Self?In recent years, Dr Nicole LePera has become the leading voice in psychological self-healing, helping millions of people around the world rise out of survival mode to consciously create authentic lives they love. In her first book, How to Do the Work, Dr Nicole offered readers a revolutionary holistic
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Infidelity

Exploding the Myths

by Julia Hartley Moore ...

Exploding the myths of why people cheat! Private investigator shares incredible true stories of infidelity Noted private investigator specializing in infidelity, Julia Hartley Moore has seen it all, and has helped thousands of women and men in the grips of this destructive force. As well as a professional interest in the subject, Julia has experienced infidelity firsthand. She was in her teens ... Read more

$4.49 NZD

Exploding the myths of why people cheat! Private investigator shares incredible true stories of infidelity Noted private investigator specializing in infidelity, Julia Hartley Moore has seen it all, and has helped thousands of women and men in the grips of this destructive force. As well as a professional interest in the subject, Julia has experienced infidelity firsthand. She was in her teens
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The Secure Soul

Finding Inner Strength and Connection When Trust Doesn't Come Easy

by Dr Alison Cook ...

USA Today BestsellerMany of us long for closeness and intimacy in relationships while simultaneously fearing rejection, abandonment, or being overwhelmed. Blending attachment theory with spiritual formation, Dr. Alison Cook helps us restore our soul to a place that can process past traumas or hurts in order to be fully alive and present.In The Secure Soul, psychologist and bestselling author Dr. ... Read more

$19.99 NZD

USA Today BestsellerMany of us long for closeness and intimacy in relationships while simultaneously fearing rejection, abandonment, or being overwhelmed. Blending attachment theory with spiritual formation, Dr. Alison Cook helps us restore our soul to a place that can process past traumas or hurts in order to be fully alive and present.In The Secure Soul, psychologist and bestselling author Dr.
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Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition

When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life

by Henry Cloud, John Townsend ...

Join the millions who have learned how to take control of their lives by setting healthy boundaries with their spouses, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even themselves—in order to live life to the fullest.Do you feel like your life has spiraled out of control?Have you focused so much on being loving and unselfish that you've forgotten your own limits?Do you find yourself taking ... Read more

$19.99 NZD

Join the millions who have learned how to take control of their lives by setting healthy boundaries with their spouses, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even themselves—in order to live life to the fullest.Do you feel like your life has spiraled out of control?Have you focused so much on being loving and unselfish that you've forgotten your own limits?Do you find yourself taking
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How to Be the Love You Seek

the instant Sunday Times bestseller

by Dr Nicole LePera ...

UK bestseller, Sunday Times, December 2023'I love Dr Nicole LePera. She helps me a lot.' GWYNETH PALTROW'A practical and inspiring primer on how to extend true connection and love to others and to our hurting world.' DR GABOR MATE´'A loving, patient, and powerful guide to creating happy, fulfilling life relationships of all kinds. How to Be the Love You Seek is a masterwork of... ... Read more

$16.99 NZD

UK bestseller, Sunday Times, December 2023'I love Dr Nicole LePera. She helps me a lot.' GWYNETH PALTROW'A practical and inspiring primer on how to extend true connection and love to others and to our hurting world.' DR GABOR MATE´'A loving, patient, and powerful guide to creating happy, fulfilling life relationships of all kinds. How to Be the Love You Seek is a masterwork of...
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Mindful Drinking

How To Break Up With Alcohol

by Rosamund Dean ...

With an easy three-step plan, Mindful Drinking: How To Break Up With Alcohol is here to help the 64% of Brits who want to drink less, and cultivate a new, healthy and more mindful relationship with alcohol. You CAN drink less, without giving up!Journalist Rosamund Dean combines scientific expertise with practical advice in a game-changing three step guide: The Problem, The Incentive, and The Plan. ... Read more

$13.99 NZD

With an easy three-step plan, Mindful Drinking: How To Break Up With Alcohol is here to help the 64% of Brits who want to drink less, and cultivate a new, healthy and more mindful relationship with alcohol. You CAN drink less, without giving up!Journalist Rosamund Dean combines scientific expertise with practical advice in a game-changing three step guide: The Problem, The Incentive, and The Plan.
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The New Codependency

Help and Guidance for Today's Generation

by Melody Beattie ...

The New Codependency is an owner’s manual to learning to be who you are and gives you the tools necessary to reclaim your life by renouncing unhealthy practices.In Codependent No More, Melody Beattie introduced the world to the term codependency. Now a modern classic, this book established Beattie as a pioneer in self-help literature and endeared her to millions of readers who longed for healthier ... Read more

$20.54 NZD

The New Codependency is an owner’s manual to learning to be who you are and gives you the tools necessary to reclaim your life by renouncing unhealthy practices.In Codependent No More, Melody Beattie introduced the world to the term codependency. Now a modern classic, this book established Beattie as a pioneer in self-help literature and endeared her to millions of readers who longed for healthier
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How to Speak Your Mind – Become Assertive and Set Limits

by Darlene Lancer JD LMFT ...

Do you say what you think, express how you feel, and ask for what you want? The way you speak immediately conveys your self-esteem. Nonassertive communication limits your professional success and leads to conflict and problems in relationships. Learning to be assertive actually raises your self-esteem, while benefiting your career, relationships, and sense of well-being."How to Speak Your Mind" ... Read more

$9.99 NZD or Free with Kobo Plus

Do you say what you think, express how you feel, and ask for what you want? The way you speak immediately conveys your self-esteem. Nonassertive communication limits your professional success and leads to conflict and problems in relationships. Learning to be assertive actually raises your self-esteem, while benefiting your career, relationships, and sense of well-being."How to Speak Your Mind"
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Beyond Addiction

How Science and Kindness Help People Change

by Jeffrey Foote, Carrie Wilkens, Nicole Kosanke, Stephanie Higgs ...

A fully updated and expanded edition of the essential guide, with a new foreword by Quit Like a Woman author Holly Whitaker.Revised and expanded, this tenth anniversary edition of Beyond Addiction eschews the theatrics of interventions and tough love to show family and friends how they can use kindness, positive reinforcement, and motivational and behavioral strategies to help their loved ones ... Read more

$14.84 NZD

A fully updated and expanded edition of the essential guide, with a new foreword by Quit Like a Woman author Holly Whitaker.Revised and expanded, this tenth anniversary edition of Beyond Addiction eschews the theatrics of interventions and tough love to show family and friends how they can use kindness, positive reinforcement, and motivational and behavioral strategies to help their loved ones
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How To Kill A Narcissist

Debunking The Myth Of Narcissism And Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse

by JH Simon ...

Series Book 1 - Kill A Narcissist
Narcissism is an overwhelming and confusing topic. But when you reveal its mask, you see that it is basically a lie, told to those who are vulnerable.Narcissistic abuse, by nature, is designed to keep you trapped in shame-based vertigo. It doesn’t just go away because you know it exists. Narcissism creates a set of beliefs, behaviours and paradigms in its target which must be changed from the ... Read more

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Narcissism is an overwhelming and confusing topic. But when you reveal its mask, you see that it is basically a lie, told to those who are vulnerable.Narcissistic abuse, by nature, is designed to keep you trapped in shame-based vertigo. It doesn’t just go away because you know it exists. Narcissism creates a set of beliefs, behaviours and paradigms in its target which must be changed from the
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Fawning

Why the Need to Please Makes Us Lose Ourselves – and How to Find our Way Back

by Ingrid Clayton ...

KICKSTART THE NEW YEAR WITH PURPOSE!AS FEATURED ON BBC WOMAN'S HOURFawning is the vital, newly-discovered topic in psychology. You've heard of fight, flight and freeze - but fawning might be the most common trauma response of all. Learn how to work through it and find freedom with the leading expert, Dr. Ingrid Clayton.Do you avoid conflict?Do you tend to take the blame?Do you take care of others ... Read more

$12.51 NZD

KICKSTART THE NEW YEAR WITH PURPOSE!AS FEATURED ON BBC WOMAN'S HOURFawning is the vital, newly-discovered topic in psychology. You've heard of fight, flight and freeze - but fawning might be the most common trauma response of all. Learn how to work through it and find freedom with the leading expert, Dr. Ingrid Clayton.Do you avoid conflict?Do you tend to take the blame?Do you take care of others
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The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome

by Harriet Braiker ...

What's wrong with being a "people pleaser?" Plenty!"A fascinating book... If you struggle with where, when, and how to draw the line between your own desires and the demands of others, buy this book!"Kay Redfield Jamison, bestselling author of An Unquiet Mind and Night Falls FastPeople pleasers are not just nice people who go overboard trying to make everyone happy. Those who suffer from the ... Read more

$27.52 NZD

What's wrong with being a "people pleaser?" Plenty!"A fascinating book... If you struggle with where, when, and how to draw the line between your own desires and the demands of others, buy this book!"Kay Redfield Jamison, bestselling author of An Unquiet Mind and Night Falls FastPeople pleasers are not just nice people who go overboard trying to make everyone happy. Those who suffer from the
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Healing Your Lost Inner Child Companion Workbook

Inspired Exercises to Heal Your Codependent Relationships

by Robert Jackman ...

Series Book 2 - Robert Jackman's Practical Wisdom Healing Series
As you discovered through reading Healing Your Lost Inner Child, until we do our work to examine, understand and heal our wounded inner child, this part will continue to show up in our lives. In Healing Your Lost Inner Child Companion Workbook, Psychotherapist and author Robert Jackman builds on the extensive material in the book with expanded exercises to help you better understand your inner ... Read more

$9.93 NZD or Free with Kobo Plus

As you discovered through reading Healing Your Lost Inner Child, until we do our work to examine, understand and heal our wounded inner child, this part will continue to show up in our lives. In Healing Your Lost Inner Child Companion Workbook, Psychotherapist and author Robert Jackman builds on the extensive material in the book with expanded exercises to help you better understand your inner
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Healing Your Lost Inner Child

How to Stop Impulsive Reactions, Set Healthy Boundaries and Embrace an Authentic Life

by Robert Jackman ...

Series Book 1 - Robert Jackman's Practical Wisdom Healing Series
Most people don't realize how much unresolved emotional pain they carry around. They don't know why they always feel depressed, anxious, victimized, or disappointed. They wonder why they keep making the same self-sabotaging impulsive decisions.These patterns often stem from their lost inner child, which carries a false narrative that has been on repeat since childhood. The hurt emotions resulting ... Read more

$12.82 NZD or Free with Kobo Plus

Most people don't realize how much unresolved emotional pain they carry around. They don't know why they always feel depressed, anxious, victimized, or disappointed. They wonder why they keep making the same self-sabotaging impulsive decisions.These patterns often stem from their lost inner child, which carries a false narrative that has been on repeat since childhood. The hurt emotions resulting
... Read more
Addiction to Love

Overcoming Obsession and Dependency in Relationships

by Susan Peabody ...

Love addiction manifests in many forms, from Fatal Attraction-type obsessive lust to less extreme but nonetheless psychologically and emotionally harmful forms. The most common of these is staying in a bad relationship because of a fear of being alone-the "I hate you but don't leave me" relationship. In ADDICTION TO LOVE, recovering love addict Susan Peabody explains the variety of ways this ... Read more

$13.03 NZD

Love addiction manifests in many forms, from Fatal Attraction-type obsessive lust to less extreme but nonetheless psychologically and emotionally harmful forms. The most common of these is staying in a bad relationship because of a fear of being alone-the "I hate you but don't leave me" relationship. In ADDICTION TO LOVE, recovering love addict Susan Peabody explains the variety of ways this
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Codependency For Dummies

by Darlene Lancer ...

Your trusted guide to value yourself and break the patterns of codependencyCodependency For Dummies, 2nd Edition is the most comprehensive book on the topic to date. Written in plain English and packed with sensitive, authoritative information, it describes the history, symptoms, causes, and relationship dynamics of codependency. The majority of the book is devoted to healing and lays out a clear ... Read more

$20.99 NZD

Your trusted guide to value yourself and break the patterns of codependencyCodependency For Dummies, 2nd Edition is the most comprehensive book on the topic to date. Written in plain English and packed with sensitive, authoritative information, it describes the history, symptoms, causes, and relationship dynamics of codependency. The majority of the book is devoted to healing and lays out a clear
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Our Mothers, Ourselves

How Understanding Your Mother's Influence Can Set You on a Path to a Better Life

by Henry Cloud, John Townsend ...

In Our Mothers, Ourselves, Henry Cloud and John Townsend show how understanding how our mothers have profoundly influenced our lives can set us on a path toward wholeness and growth.No one has influenced the person you are today like your mother. The way she handled your needs as a child has shaped your worldview, your relationships, your marriage, your career, your self-image - your life. Our ... Read more

$19.99 NZD

In Our Mothers, Ourselves, Henry Cloud and John Townsend show how understanding how our mothers have profoundly influenced our lives can set us on a path toward wholeness and growth.No one has influenced the person you are today like your mother. The way she handled your needs as a child has shaped your worldview, your relationships, your marriage, your career, your self-image - your life. Our
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Tending Dandelions

Honest Meditations for Mothers with Addicted Children

by Sandra Swenson ...

Series series Hazelden Meditations
Mothers of addicted and alcoholic children share a deep connection—one that is rarely understood by anyone who hasn’t experienced a similar path. Sharing our perspectives helps us all grow stronger, together.“We all need to take a closer look at the things we’ve avoided—the things lurking around in this place where love and addiction meet—so we’re as strong as we can be.”—Sandra Swenson, author of ... Read more

$11.41 NZD

Mothers of addicted and alcoholic children share a deep connection—one that is rarely understood by anyone who hasn’t experienced a similar path. Sharing our perspectives helps us all grow stronger, together.“We all need to take a closer look at the things we’ve avoided—the things lurking around in this place where love and addiction meet—so we’re as strong as we can be.”—Sandra Swenson, author of
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On Fear

by Jiddu Krishnamurti ...

On Fear is a collection of Krishnamurti's most profound observations and thoughts on how fear and dependence affect our lives and prevent us from seeing our true selves. Among the many questions Krishnamurti addresses in these remarkable teachings are: How can a mind that is afraid love? And what can a mind that depends on attachment know of joy? He points out that the voice of fear makes the mind ... Read more

$6.99 NZD

On Fear is a collection of Krishnamurti's most profound observations and thoughts on how fear and dependence affect our lives and prevent us from seeing our true selves. Among the many questions Krishnamurti addresses in these remarkable teachings are: How can a mind that is afraid love? And what can a mind that depends on attachment know of joy? He points out that the voice of fear makes the mind
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Secure Relating

Holding Your Own in an Insecure World

by Sue Marriott, Ann Kelley ...

Experienced mental health professionals and hosts of the Therapist Uncensored podcast offer a groundbreaking new clinical perspective that integrates modern attachment theory, relational neuroscience, and current cultural context to create a hopeful framework for deeper and more permanent change, growth and connection in all types of relationships."This is the book to hand not just to your clients ... Read more

$19.99 NZD

Experienced mental health professionals and hosts of the Therapist Uncensored podcast offer a groundbreaking new clinical perspective that integrates modern attachment theory, relational neuroscience, and current cultural context to create a hopeful framework for deeper and more permanent change, growth and connection in all types of relationships."This is the book to hand not just to your clients
... Read more
Codependent Cure: The No More Codependency Recovery Guide For Obtaining Detachment From Codependence Relationships

Codependency and Narcissism: Breaking the Cycle, #1

by Jean Harrison, Beattie Grey ...

Series Book 1 - Codependency and Narcissism: Breaking the Cycle
Imagine a powerful solution for saying "No" to your loved ones WITHOUT risking their affection...Do you need external validation just to function properly?Are you constantly putting out fires and fixing other people's problems while neglecting your own?Are your fears of abandonment so strong that you feel as if one of your limbs is being amputated when someone leaves you?If so, you'r... ... Read more

$4.99 NZD or Free with Kobo Plus

Imagine a powerful solution for saying "No" to your loved ones WITHOUT risking their affection...Do you need external validation just to function properly?Are you constantly putting out fires and fixing other people's problems while neglecting your own?Are your fears of abandonment so strong that you feel as if one of your limbs is being amputated when someone leaves you?If so, you'r...
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Please Don't Say You Need Me

Biblical Answers for Codependency

by Jan Silvious ...

Please Don’t Say You Need Me. . . is a common plea voiced by people trapped in unhealthy, codependent relationships. Confused by their conflicting emotions, they feel trapped between wanting to love and care for someone else and yet, at the same time, needing to escape from that person’s intense and suffocating demands for self-esteem.Jan Silvious offers practical, biblical answers for those ... Read more

$15.99 NZD

Please Don’t Say You Need Me. . . is a common plea voiced by people trapped in unhealthy, codependent relationships. Confused by their conflicting emotions, they feel trapped between wanting to love and care for someone else and yet, at the same time, needing to escape from that person’s intense and suffocating demands for self-esteem.Jan Silvious offers practical, biblical answers for those
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Narcissistic Abuse & Codependency

A Comprehensive Recovery Guide for Gaslighting and Narcissism, with Strategies to Identify, Disarm, and Manage Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships.

by Eric Holt ...

Series Book 2 - Breaking Free from Gaslighting and Narcissistic Abuse
It’s Time to Finally Break Free From Your Toxic Partner and Here’s How!Do you constantly doubt your own worth?Do you always feel like you’re walking on eggshells to avoid triggering your partner's rage?Do you feel like your relationship has caused you to lose sight of your own identity?Narcissistic abuse and codependency in a relationship are more common than you think. And even worse, most ... Read more

$1.79 NZD or Free with Kobo Plus

It’s Time to Finally Break Free From Your Toxic Partner and Here’s How!Do you constantly doubt your own worth?Do you always feel like you’re walking on eggshells to avoid triggering your partner's rage?Do you feel like your relationship has caused you to lose sight of your own identity?Narcissistic abuse and codependency in a relationship are more common than you think. And even worse, most
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Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, & Codependency Recovery

Protect Yourself Against Dark Psychology Tactics, Recognize Emotionally Abusive People, and Spot Manipulation to End Toxic Relationships.

by Eric Holt ...

Series Book 3 - Breaking Free from Gaslighting and Narcissistic Abuse
Know That Your Toxic Partner Doesn’t Have to Control Your Life Any Longer With This Bundle!Do you constantly doubt your own worth and try to take the blame for things you didn’t do?Do you always feel like you’re walking on eggshells when you’re around your partner?Do you feel like you’ve lost sight of who you are?Uncover the ultimate resource for navigating the treacherous terrain of toxic ... Read more

$3.59 NZD or Free with Kobo Plus

Know That Your Toxic Partner Doesn’t Have to Control Your Life Any Longer With This Bundle!Do you constantly doubt your own worth and try to take the blame for things you didn’t do?Do you always feel like you’re walking on eggshells when you’re around your partner?Do you feel like you’ve lost sight of who you are?Uncover the ultimate resource for navigating the treacherous terrain of toxic
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